What Flower Marks Your Wedding Anniversary?

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The UK’s leading online florist, SerenataFlowers.com, has revealed the flowers that symbolise each year of married life and the lovely meaning behind them…

Giving a gift on a wedding aniversary was a tradition started by Roman husbands, who would gift their wives a silver garland on their 25th wedding anniversary. Since Roman times other precious metals and materials have been added to the list to embody a different year of marriage – but did you know each anniversary also has an associated flower?

Lucia Polla, marketing manager at SerenataFlowers.com, comments, “Most people will know that wedding anniversaries are marked by gem stones and other special materials, but few people are aware that each occasion is also embodied by a flower.

For centuries flowers have been known to represent different traits and emotions and so it makes sense that an anniversary should be celebrated with a flower that synergises with the meaning of each occasion.

“It can be tricky to purchase thoughtful anniversary gifts year after year – especially if the occasion has crept up on you – but gifting flowers is always sure to put a smile on your spouse’s face. Whether gifting a single stem or a full bouquet of your anniversary’s associated flower, telling the story behind the flower’s meaning will definitely win you brownie points with your partner this year.”

Flowers and their meaning….

1st anniversary – Carnation

A couple’s first anniversary is symbolised by carnations. In their red form, carnations symbolise admiration, whilst in their white form they represent innocence. Carnations are a long-lived flower that embodies the promise of a lifetime spent together.

Red Carnations Pic: Istockphoto

Pic: Istockphoto

2nd anniversary – Lily of the Valley

With their white hue and delicate petals, lilies of the valley are known as a sign of purity and have symbolised devotion for centuries. According to legend, a nightingale will only return to the woods in spring once the lily of the valley is in bloom – just as a spouse in their second year of marriage will eagerly await their partner’s return when they’re away.

Bouquet of Lilies of the Valley

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3rd anniversary – Sunflower

Sunflowers are the emblem of the third year of marriage. Their strong stems symbolise strong foundation of a relationship while their sunny hues represent the warmth shared between lovers. Sunflowers turn their heads to follow the direction of the sun, symbolising loyalty.

Sunflower bouquet

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4th anniversary – Hydrangea

Hydrangea symbolises the growing understanding between two people and is given on the fourth year of marriage. It also symbolises gratitude and is the perfect way to thank a spouse for another year of a happy marriage together.

5th anniversary – Daisy

The meaning of daisies is “forever love”. Whilst they may appear simple or even boring at first glance, a closer inspection reveals an intricate texture and petal structure. Just as a couple in their fifth year of marriage may begin to slip into mundane routines, the daisy is given as a reminder that there are still surprises to be found.

6th anniversary – Calla

The calla lily is an elegant and colourful bloom symbolic of growth. In its pink form it carries connotations of admiration and appreciation and as the flower associated with the sixth anniversary it is traditionally gifted as a promise of passion.

Pink Calla Lilies Pic: Istockphoto

Flowers of pink calla lilies

7th anniversary – Freesia

Traditionally a trying year for couples, many look to avoid the seven year itch by presenting their loved one with a freesia, a symbol of trust and faithfulness.

8th anniversary – Lilac

With its enchanting scent, pretty purple petals and heart shaped leaves, lilacs are a symbol of first love. Traditionally given on the 8th year of marriage, lilacs are gifted to remind couples of the fiery romance shared in the early days of a relationship.

9th anniversary – Bird of Paradise

The 9th wedding anniversary is embodied in the bird of paradise flower – an exotic and magnificent flower symbolic of freedom and joy. It connotates faithfulness and thoughtfulness and represents having a good perspective on life, as a couple in their ninth year should.

Bird of Paradise flowers Pic: Istockphoto

Pic: Istockphoto

10th anniversary – Daffodil

Daffodils are often used to signify memories not forgotten and are the symbol of a decade spent in wedlock. They also symbolise new beginnings and therefore presenting your spouse with a bouquet of daffodils is a reminder of the memories shared throughout married life and a promise of more to come.

25th anniversary – Iris

A notable flower for a notable milestone. The 25th anniversary is represented by the iris, which signifies faith, wisdom and promise. The Iris is also the symbol of France and heavily associated with Paris, the city of love. It also represents respect and compliments – a fitting flower to mark the occasion.

Irises on table Pic: Istockphoto

Pic: Istockphoto

50th anniversary – Yellow Rose and Violets

The only anniversary that is marked by not one but two flowers. The contrasting colours of yellow roses and violets symbolises the coming together of two people that complement and support each other despite their differences. Yellow roses are symbolic of beauty and prosperity whilst violets represent humility and commitment. Excellent traits of a long and healthy marriage.

Allison Hay

I joined the My Weekly team nine years ago, and I love the variety of topics we cover both online and in the magazine. I manage the digital content for the brand, sharing features and information on the website, social media and in our digital newsletters. I also work for Your Best Ever Christmas - perfect as it's my favourite time of year!